Documentation

Mediate docs

Mediate is an assertive conflict facilitator for two-person circles. It stays quiet until there is clear value—then may post a short Group note or whisper a private tip. These pages explain the facilitation lenses behind those tips.

How facilitation works

Quiet by default. Mild frustration or progress underway usually means silence—not a hang.
Private whispers. Face-saving coaching on your message stays recipient-only; your partner never sees the indicator or text.
Framework sources. When a tip cites a school (Gottman, NVC, Perel…), the link opens the matching page here—not raw pack JSON.

Frameworks

All frameworks

Gottman

Gottman repair tools

Repair tools and Four Horsemen antidotes

NVC

NVC request language

Observation–feeling–need–request rehearsals

Perel

Relational curiosity (Perel-inspired)

Curiosity lens for desire and meaning fights

Also available: EFT, IBCT, RLT, MI, Pacing, Power, Practical.

Licensing stance

Framework packs are educational / paraphrased themes inspired by publicly discussed concepts. They are not affiliated clinical products, not copyrighted assessments, and not a substitute for professional help.